Friday, July 20, 2012

A Thanking Note!

In furtherance of giving a sweet thanks to you, this is my tiny effort to make you little aware that I have completely fallen in love with you. You might be thinking that the girl is naughty enough using the finest butter which could make anybody slip onto the floor.  Sir! Thanking somebody that too in a special way is a tedious task. I thought many times and came to the conclusion that it is not the right time to do special things since we live apart.

Well someone has rightly said, “if you want to make your wife happy then gift her as many gifts as you can…  ;)” Sir would you like to check your wallet?  Neah…! My wife is not so demanding and not even a tantrum shower. She is a perfect blend of sensibile and compromising nature, whatever I say she agrees to that.  ASOKA!  I was wrong. We can never understand how do these women change, also can never resolve this mystery out. Poor men!

Don’t be so scared. I will not erode much of your pocket just few diamond sets, trip to London, New York & Egypt and that’s it! Ha ha ha… making you even more scared this time.  One question must have reached to your thought process that, is it really a thanking note? It appears to be a demanding note instead.

Well, I would like to thank my sweet & cute hubby for gifting me a useful, tangible, wireless, configured, technical body, loaded with numerous features, which would always be handy to listen down his sweet voice and to capture down beautiful pictures which would be sending out across the ocean to put smile on his face. Chocolates for those who have guessed it correctly, yes… It’s a mobile phone. He asked me several times, which phone do you want? also gave me few options such as HTC explorer, Samsung Galaxy S1, Samsung ACE or HTC ChaCha. Confused! Aaammm…HTC explorer, Samsung Galaxy S1, ACE, Ok... Order ChaCha… it’s cool… think again…  No, it’s good. Next day… hmmm… mood changed… order ACE… but I have already placed the order… uufff… girls are crazy! Don’t have sense to choose any gadget. Check this out... http://geekaphone.com/compare/HTC-ChaCha-vs-Samsung-Galaxy-Ace  ACE Cancel.  At last… phone got selected. Again, toffees for those who have caught it correctly, yes… its HTC ChaCha.

In lieu of this gift, I wanted to give him one sweet and special thanks but… now the mystery begins here, "I would do things whatever are in my hands; just being myself within the limits." Now no-one will get any chocolates or toffees because this is between me & him. Sshhh…

Gifts are nothing but modes to convey how much love you do to your dear ones. May you be blessed with sound health and lot of wealth so that, you can love your wife even more efficiently.

To be continued...

Wednesday, July 11, 2012


Fairy tales! I used to read it in my childhood. Cinderella &  Snow white stuff, lovely stories with a climax of getting a prince charming. I have an optimistic persona. I have always lived with a dream of getting my prince charming. Though, I was unable to make his appearance in mind, a hazed picture with few behavioural specifications and a feel of flourishing caring personality could depict his perfect picture. I never take beauty as a criterion to judge anyone. For me, beauty lies within the personality; if I want to feel the real beauty then I probably look into someone’s eyes, soul, mind and heart which will eventually introduce me to the level of beauty, passion, intelligence and the optimistic temperament respectively.

My fairy tale was recently being written by God that too with the same climax-“My prince charming!” It was a dream-cum-true! It’s not a falling in love at first site stuff; our parents’ decision with our hidden consent. Two weeks ago, we got engaged and we are getting to know each other and now the love is in the air! Romance with the permission of elders; it’s amazing! Thank you Lord! You blessed me with my dream personality & also for planning out a beautiful love story of mine. The old earth is changing; the seasons turn around. The autumn leaves tizzy, their way to the ground. My own world is changing; the seasons conspire to grant me the peace of a rest by the fire.

Apart from any difference of opinion, behaviour or living style, hoping for the best couple ever seen before. I think, he has read many chapters of mine as my resemblance can be given with an open book… expressive, caring, emotional etc. Don’t have any idea about how much I have won his heart but, will try to make most of my every opportunity to win each person’s heart in his family.

Monday, July 25, 2011


On a friendship day, this is a tribute to my best friend ‘NAQVEE’.

When it comes to count my friends… the list is too short. I have very few friends whom I can trust. I am lucky enough as I have at least one genuine friend for each phase of my life… be it KG, Nursery or College. It’s not easy to find a true friend in adolescence because people make friends just to use them.

When I was in college, I was such a dumbo ass; I didn’t even know who is good or who is bad…? Who is taking advantage of me or who is using me? But, I was successful enough as I found my kinda girl, who could really understand me and who was there with me when I was alone. And she is still there in my life even after college. It’s true… with the passé of time, changes do come in life. Our life has also changed after college.

• Earlier, when we were in college, we used to be empty pockets whereas now I and she, both are working. Hence, our pockets are no more empty.
• Earlier, we used to wear not so good attires, now we have started shopping on our monthly basis.
• Earlier we used to talk like immature buddies whereas now we are grown up fellows.
• Earlier we used to go for lunches whereas now we have started dinners in expensive restaurants.
But one thing which never changed is our bonding. I don’t know what kind of adhesive is there which never allow breakings. It is also true that friendship cannot be survived alone without the flavor of fight (only momentary). We had serious fights as well, which actually strengthened our bonding. Differences came, stayed for a while and went away forever. Now I hardly remember any fight or any kind of argument since one year.

On 4th of July, it was her birthday and we celebrated it like anything. She kept telling that she was born on the same date when America got its independence. I wonder! Berak Obama wasn’t feeling jealous of her that Americans were less enthu for their own country’s birthday. ;) Well, jokes apart, I am really thanked full to God that I have such a wonderful friend in my life. I always pray to God that she should be blessed with sound health. As she recently had got hepatitis ‘A’ & typhoid and she is a permanent patient of thyroid.

Well…I must mention the fact that I & she are two lazy birds and we can go to any extant for keeping ourselves fit, like from jogging to yoga etc. but, one should appreciate our inconsistency which we maintain. First I started early morning jogging and thereafter she was also invited for the same. I used to wake first and then I used to call her up but all of a sudden I started saying that it’s very difficult for me to wake up early in the morning and for that matter she started cursing me. I used to take that curses very positively as somewhere I felt I am the defaulter but it was never pointed out that now it’s her turn to wake me up? Alas! Eventually we stopped jogging and we continued our sleeps. Now yesterday the lazy queen came up with the idea of appointing me as her trainer for her health care as she is less concern about her own health. Now tell me… who is lazier????

When it comes to fighting; we fight like cats & dogs. We are crazzzzy!!!! We can dance like anything. We are mad….! Well along with the madness, we have our own qualities as well. Like for instance I am a good ‘COOK’ and she is a good ‘STORY TELLER’. And together we become even more talented and more powerful as we have made our own Guineas Book of World Record in walking. We have walked around 15 km a day.

We both love nature, window shopping, walking, dancing etc.; we both love to eat but simultaneously we become more happy when we share our food with hungry poor people; we love to help the needy ones. After all we both have soft corners for beggars, handicaps, rake pickers, booksellers etc. we are very much attached to them as we choose them as our subject for our empirical research in clinical course when we were in college.

At times I feel, without her, I would have become incomplete. Indeed she is my treasured friend. I’m glad I found her; our friendship is a gift we share. I can be myself around her, Safe in her love and care. I miss her when she’s out of sight; our friendship bond was meant to be. I think of her with great delight; she’s almost part of me. Through fun and fears, play and tears, we help each other heal and grow.
I prize our time--the days, the years, more than she can know. Just harmony for I and she, the two of us--a perfect blend. I’ll cherish her in my whole life, my dear and treasured friend NAQVEE.

Sunday, July 24, 2011


I have always lived in an Indian culture where brides wear Red Color Beautiful Dress (full of diamantes, glitter and golden thread embroidery). In all communities getting married is always appreciable and to become a bride is a privilege.
Since my childhood, the dream to become a bride is always there in mind. I cherish every bit of effort taken by a bride in furtherance of making herself beautiful for just one day or even for few hours. Heavy gold sets, “MEHDI” in hands, stylish make-up, and expensive red dress are the attractive features of a bride. Whenever I go to any marriage party, I see myself in place of the bride. I am 25 years old and I am still deprived of this privilege. Bride’s tantrums, her excitement about ‘the marriage’, anxiety etcetera… I wish, I could also feel all that. Before anything else I should not forget ‘the fruit of patience is always sweet’; so, with this hope, I am waiting for the Great Grand Day of my life. May God Bless ‘moi’!!!!!

Saturday, July 23, 2011


Under the shade of a tree, when I close my eyes, I ask why...? why do we dream? why do we make promises? why do we sow something which we can't reap? All questions end up with the desire to live better life. Like everyone, I am also a common person who feels, we are here to fulfill our dreams and to meet our commitments towards life.

In the crowd of metropolis with loads of dreams in eyes to achieve something in life I leave my house everyday. The day starts with a heavy mind and with sleepy eyes but my subconscious mind motives me to do things against my wishes. Daily office routine, heavy dose of work, manager's lectures, gossiping, backbiting, etc. are part of my life. Different people with different background teach me a new lesson each time. Today is different from yesterday, which actually creates suspense and gives reason to rise next morning.

Life is not an easy job. Happiness, sorrow, hollowness, love; breakup, friendship, jealousy are part of everyone's life. But successful people are those who can balance out their lives with these kind of stuff. At times, I loose my control over my emotions which could be my weak point. I know while running with the hunt of quest, lust of money, position, competition and success, the time would not be there with me to overcome my weaknesses. Therefore, I should not let my time go, I may done with few things but many more things are still need to be done by me.